Words of comfort from one lady to another

I have watched you from a distance and I see your pain, I feel your heartache as if it were my own and I wish as your friend to take away the hurt and the anger, for I too have been there, as have every other man and woman who stands before us. We are not the first nor will we ever be the last to have a broken heart.
But I live so far away I cannot even wipe away your tears, all I can offer you are words of comfort from afar and to assure you that everything WILL be ok in the end.
I also Want to tell you, how you know deep in your heart that you are worthy of so much more without the need to struggle. And that special love you so much desire, you already hold in your heart, all you need to do is accept it for yourself because it is only when you do, that love will find you. And all those empty nights when you feel a pang of loneliness, they are only reminders that you can be independent, strong and stand alone as one.
Embrace those moments and find that love you already hold in your heart and feel, I mean truly feel that love for yourself as if no-one can possibly love you more.

When at times you find yourself searching out company that doesn’t ring true to your inner soul, ask yourself what it is you are really escaping from or avoiding.
A cheap date or one-night stand can only serve to fill an empty void, nothing more nothing less, for if that company does not support or respect your spiritual growth, it will only be yourself that you are hurting in the long run. Feel that love you already hold in your heart and surround yourself with the people you love and care about and who love and care for you back, for it is ok to feel weak, we cannot always be the tower of strength we so like to give the impression of. That is why we have friends to lean on, for in our times of darkness, they will guide us to the light once again.

As your friend, I can only stand by and be a shoulder to cry on and be an ear to listen to without judgment. I can give you answers, but they are only my truths and we all have our own truths and our own paths to walk, but I think you already know your answers, it is only when you accept them can you move forward.
But if I may give you a little bit of advice, it will be this.

Move forward without fear, for you ARE brave enough!
Believe in yourself like you did before. Trust once again, it was never your fault to fall in love and to believe in that love. Don’t allow those ones who betray your trust, to destroy you too. Nor give your time or thoughts to try to understand, for the truth of the matter is, they probably don’t understand themselves and if they do and they really see how their actions have caused you so much pain but still do it, then they certainly do not deserve your time let alone your love.
Forgive and let go with love.
Live your life with dignity, with integrity, passion and with love and light in your heart, for WE ARE LOVE.